Social Networking As the New Family Reunion

I must admit when I first started using social networking websites, I really only wanted to see how I could possibly improve my relationship outlook. I was either looking for someone who was single, announcing that I was single or pleasantly surprised by who in my immediate community was suddenly single. And my interest in social networking sites remained that way until an old school friend looked me up on what was at that time the it place to be on the internet, Friendster. When Friendster no longer had the shiny new mouse appeal for the masses, Facebook was launched and poor Friendster became a mere figment of our short term memories.

When I signed up on Facebook, I threw caution to the wind and really started to investigate and utilize all the features of the website and to use the numerous avenues available to not only seek out childhood friends, but family I hadn’t spoken to or seen in awhile.

Then it happened, I realized it wasn’t a cool thing to do when I was board on the train ride home, I was actually growing closer to my family with the information that was being shared. It was also saving me money, because not only was I able to chat with my relatives in Panama for a fraction of the cost in comparison to placing an international call, but I could instantly share photos of what was going on in my life and they could do the same.

In addition, I discovered so many other relatives I didn’t even know I had and found out more about my family through the status updates that I had ever known about them prior. Then one day my cousin inquired about photos of his mom. She had long since passed away when he was still in junior high school and it hadn’t dawned on me that he didn’t have photos of her in his possession. I began the search through what photos I had and I ended up posting a photo of my aunt when she was still in high school which my mom provided to me. The response I received from my cousin was one of emotional resolve. He said seeing that photo of his mom had simply made his year.

Another of my cousins who is in the military was able to notify us all quickly of his pending deployment to Afghanistan and we were able to send our well wishes and prayers as quickly as the initial notification was sent to us.

In reality, I have never had so many conversations, discussions and mere check-ins with my family until these social networking sites came into existence. For that I am grateful for the unique advancements in technology. Sometimes these sites tend to get a bad rap because there have been some tragic occurrences when a few individuals have decided to utilize these sites for their own illicit agendas.

As for me, I say thanks, it’s strengthened the

By Michelle Lee Dixon

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Buying Beads Online – Best Tips

Finding an inexpensive source of beads can be difficult for those who enjoy making their own jewelry. There are many wholesale retailers on the internet that offer their products over the internet, which can maximize your purchasing power. However, in most cases you will probably have to order far more than you need and for those living in the US, you will have to obtain a license.

Sometimes you can avoid those issues by purchasing from an online auction site like eBay, but that can also present unforeseen problems as well.

Here are ten tips to get the most out of your money when buying beads online from auction sites.

*Stay Calm

Keep in mind what you are willing to pay so you don’t get caught up in a bidding war. The last thing you want is to pay far more than what it’s worth, so keep your cool and be willing to let it go when the price exceeds what you budgeted.

*Plan Appropriately

Before you bid, be sure to fully check out the product. Go over the picture, make sure the beads are what you are looking for and don’t assume what the sizes are, be sure to go over the information listed. If you were looking for a ready-made necklace, then a strand of beads doesn’t do you any good. And if you have any questions, ask the seller first.

*See through the Hype

Remember that the descriptions for the items are written to get your attention and build up the product, not necessarily to accurately describe what it is. Be aware of vague or incomplete descriptions like; “The picture speaks for itself.” or words like “unique”, since exquisite beads can be found in many places.

In many cases, the seller is not trying to deceive you, but they may not fully understand the meaning of some common terms like “antique”. By US Customs definition, an “antique” item is over 100 years old, not something that is 50 years old.

By spending a little time looking around, you may stumble across a truly unique item, but beware that you’ll have to look around quite a bit first, so be careful.

*Check all the Web Sites

When you find what you are looking for at an auction site, try looking at the website of the dealer itself. It could be that the dealer site may be running a special or can combine different items you are looking for and sell for a lower price.

In many cases, the seller will have several auction sites going with similar, if not identical items. Look at what those items are selling for and from that you’ll be able to make a rough, but educated guess as to what you might eventually pay.

*Check the Feedback

EBay has a feedback rating for each seller, based on what their customers think of the product and how quickly it was shipped after they paid. A seller with thousands of auctions under his or her belt may have a few negative comments, which is fairly common. But you’ll want to avoid a seller with a higher percentage of unhappy customers.

*Get a “Sniping” program

A common practice in auctions is to place a higher bid mere seconds from the auction ending. This practice is perfectly acceptable and is called “sniping”. There are many free “sniping” programs on the web that you can download and it can make the difference in grabbing that desired item.

*Look for a Return Policy

On eBay, those who use PayPal almost always have a return policy for items they purchased. So be sure before bidding that the seller does have a return policy. But in many cases you will have to pay shipping or handling fee to the seller, so beware.

*Be Organized

When conversing with the seller, always quote the auction number so there is no confusion. Many sellers run dozens of auctions at a time and it can be easy for them to get confused. Also, for those busy sellers it may take them a few days to contact you, which is normal. Sending a torrent of emails is not going to make the seller move any faster.

eBay features a “handling” indicator as part of each auction site, which indicates how long it may take before the seller ships your item, so be sure to keep that in mind when contacting the seller.

*Shipping Costs

Always check the shipping costs before you bid. There are sellers who might try to take advantage of you. Be especially aware of items that may have to be shipped from overseas, like China.

So a good rule of thumb for a reasonable shipping rate is around $10 for a small order, anything significantly more, like around $20 is unreasonable unless you want it to you overnight. Also, allocate a reasonable time for your item to arrive, say ten days if it shipped from within your country and twenty days for international shipping.

Also, contact the seller if you have purchased more than one item and ask them to combine shipping to save on price. A seller can adjust the shipping charges when sending you an invoice, so be sure to take advantage if you can.

*Pay Quickly

Using PayPal or a credit card right after the auction ends is the quickest way to start the shipping process to begin. Sending a check will take time to clear. Also, many sellers in the US have to collect sales tax on their items because of their “resale” license, which is also true in Europe for their Value Added Tax (VAT). They may have to pay penalties if they don’t collect the tax, so be aware that you won’t get around that.

Following these tips while buying beads online can save from making a bad purchase, from wasting time and effort, and where it counts most, in your pocketbook.

You can learn more on Buying Beads Online and educate yourself to avoid sticky situations that you may run into in the future.

By Steve Bee

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